Have you ever realized when someone knows you have deep feelings for them their action either change for the good or bad. Rarely for the good! As long the other individual is unclear of how you feel other than what you do tell them things can go either way as well. Before deciding if this is you think about the actions of the other person. Do they make you feel unappreciated? Do they always say how they feel about you but act differently? Do they have a lack of respect for you? If you can answer yes to at least one of those questions you may want to pay attention to your man but before you do ask yourself a question, Do I know my other person well enough to assume or question their actions? If you don't know what the other person likes or normally does then there is no need for you to question anything unless the proof is in the pudding. Now if your significant other is normally happy, energetic and family oriented and their schedule changes unexpectedly you might want to keep your eyes open. This does not necessarily mean they are cheating! They could possibly be working late or hanging with the boys. Ladies give a man a possible advancement opportunity and allow them to show you who they are and what you mean to them. Men stop calling all women whores, bitches, slots, tramps, etc. That is not at all how you handle a woman verbally. If you made the right decisions in regards to women you would not have been used, cheated on and taken advantage of. Before calling a woman a whore think about what you did in the past. If you have slept around or slept with a whore what does that make you? Before calling a woman a bitch, Play all your temper tantrums and arguments back in your head you got bitch tendencies too. When we all become comfortable with yourself and know your faults before calling somebody else out maybe you will have the opportunity to find real love.
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