Throughout my life i have seen and had some dealings with several types of men. I have had the thug, the baby, the addict, the dead beat, the less hygienic, the hustler and the momma's boy. Each one has opened my eyes to what kind of man i want. With the thug, he was very aggressive because he had a reputation in the streets. He was not the faithful type and not the fatherly type either. He only worries about his boys. The baby was the spoiled type he always wanted things to go his way and when they didn't he has a fit. He was too focused on himself to be a father, lover, or friend. The addict had not only 1 addiction but he was also addicted to proving something to everybody else. He always wanted people to see his good side and not his addiction. He was secretive, sneaky and agitated on some days. The dead beat was not interested at all in taking care of his responsibilities. Doing all he can in the streets or even at work but he never took the initiative to be a father, lover, or provider. The less hygienic was not focused at all on his personal hygiene. Allowing himself to have a aroma which stuck around even after a shower. The hustler always put money first regardless of what could happen. Some hustlers are good fathers, providers, and sometimes lovers. They are also a little like the thugs. The momma's boys are very dependent upon their mother and normally look for a woman who will take her place. They are family oriented, sometimes responsible, and make great fathers. Their mothers always seem to come first in their life which leaves you either second or third in their lives. Each one is different but they all have similar qualities. A real woman does not need a man but wants a man who will put them first as well as their children, love them with actions and not words, be romantic and shows appreciation for what they do. No woman deserves to be talked down to, beat on, pushed to the side, cheated on, or dis- respected.
